Self-care isn’t something that’s nice to do.
I’ve known that for some time. True in my own life and that of my clients. But I’ve been quiet about some of the services I offer. Afraid to promote too heavily. Afraid of rejection. But all that changed for me about a month ago.
On a Sunday a friend who’s an author and international trainer had a stroke. This woman, a key figure in her industry, has touched the lives of many. Today she’s relearning to walk, do laundry, use a computer…
On that Tuesday another friend, a man with a brilliant mind and big heart, passed away after an 8 month dance with cancer. His kindness and belief in me were life changing when I was in my 20’s. His professional life was all about being an advocate for those in vulnerable situations.
On that Thursday his wife, my best friend from college and the maid of honor at my wedding, received her first chemo treatment for ovarian cancer. My friend was a social worker. Currently she works as a nurse practitioner in an emergency room. If you’ve ever complained about a health care practitioner without people skills you can appreciate how important this woman with skills in nursing AND counseling is to her community.
Big Heart, Brilliant Minds
The world needs people with big hearts and brilliant minds. We need the gifts, the life purpose, of these creative and caring souls.
I can’t say that if any of them had made different choices they would have avoided the events of that week. But I do know that people of a caring nature, the massage therapists, coaches, teachers, social workers, artists, etc. I work with often neglect themselves in the pursuit of helping others.
They skimp (or skip) on their workouts. They work late in order to help someone. They eat a fast food meal because they’re too tired from giving, giving, giving.
Yes, I’m talking about others, but I fall victim to this pattern as well sometimes. Thinking that finishing a project is more important than getting to bed. Telling myself I need to work “just a little longer” when what I need is to walk. When I pay attention and take care of myself it always serves me.
My takeaways from that week:
- Take good care, really good care of the precious body, mind, spirit that you’ve been given.
- If something’s important to you spend time with it. Friends, family, your pets, a favorite hobby, your purpose in life…
- I need to be bolder about my message. I’ve stayed too hidden. I need to let people know how I can help. My genius is in helping people with a passion sink firmly into their purpose in a way that is sustainable. I can help them get out of overwork and overwhelm and onto a path that gives them energy and wellness. All while still doing the thing that they’re meant to do.
How about you? What can you commit to doing this week in service of your wellness and your purpose? Commit to it here!
Great post, Sharon! Both from a wellness standpoint AND a business standpoint. I commit to getting back into my workout routine after having out-of-town company for the past couple of weeks. 🙂
Thanks Lisa. Good reminder that even when fitness is a regular part of your life, circumstances can alter your routine. Good for you for getting back to it!