I didn’t take a single day off for rest and renewal during my first year of full-time self-employment. Even though I loved my new profession, my clients, and being my own boss I ended up depleted.
At the end of that year I treated myself to a week at a yoga workshop in Mexico. The first three days while everyone else body surfed or walked the beach I sat in a hammock and stared at the ocean. You know, that kind of vacant, not very bright staring. It was all I could do.
From that hammock I vowed to never again let myself get that depleted.
Why no vacation for me?
Because I was afraid I wouldn’t make it without a paycheck. Now I know that being successful (in my business and my life) means I must take regular time away from work.
This year I rested, swam, and paddle boarded in Troncones, Mexico for a couple of weeks, added some vacation days to a conference trip to Vancouver, B.C. and Seattle, and spent a week with family in the midwest.
But those weren’t my only renewal periods. I highly recommend mini breaks in addition to longer times away. Yesterday I took advantage of a break between clients to walk to a local park and play on the swings. It was our last day of sunshine for months and kids were in school so I had my choice of swings.
Do you need a get away?
The best time to plan your get away is before you’re stressed and crabby, before you have to push yourself through your days, before you find yourself doing anything but work.
But, hey, if you’ve let yourself get depleted as I was and ocean staring is not in your near future, consider an emergency mini-retreat.
And if you need further enticement here are a few more benefits of time away from work.
- Stress reduction
- Enhanced job performance
- Increased creativity
- Improved physical and mental health
A day off to hike or read a novel, a day trip to a local day spa, a girls night out… What renews you?
So true! I didn’t realize that I had lost the ability to relax until the last day of vacation. Now I’m consciously remembering and reliving it every day so I can take a little break during the day and also to remember how to relax when I take a longer break.
I hear you Joni. it’s a lesson that I’ve had to repeat often.